Wednesday, February 24, 2010

Let go....



There comes a time in everyone’s life when you look back upon certain incidents in the years gone past and loudly proclaim “Omg!!! I can’t believe I fell for that! “ or “Damn! I can’t believe I did that”. And thats when you suddenly realize that you have grown up. It’s like, life through the rear view mirror always brings an expression amalgamated with smiles and shocks, to our faces and of course, there is this realization of sorts which puts any-time-ready-to-think thinkers like me into an incessant cartwheel of totally totally random thoughts.

So many times, the standards you measure events, people or situations against, are themselves baseless. Presumptions can certainly lead to some very seriously wrong assumptions.

:) For all those of you still trying to figure out the reason I wrote the couple of lines above, well….of late as I have (kind of deliberately) forced myself to side away from the usual and finally plunge into the things I ought to have concentrated upon long back. I realized that all this while I had been trying to measure myself against standards that weren’t set by me in the first place and hence can never be correct. I believe that unless you try to make your life better, it won’t become better. So if there is something you don’t like, you have to make an attempt to change it. You have to let go. Easier said than done. I know… But atleast I can say I tried ;)




p.s Hats off to 3Idiots- another revolution brought about by hindi cinema and amir khan in particular. It was something a lot of people needed to see :)

9 comments:

Debasish Patra said...

I always knew about YOU thinking bout thinking & analyzing it all over again & going back to it :)

I agree with the 2nd para though.Trying to make sense of what we are doing & what we want to do is a sticky subject, but like u said we need to begin somewhere.
And somewhere I'm happy that u wrote this.

:)

Abhu said...

@ dave- And somewhere i owe owe this to the people who listen to my incessant banter help me thnk clearer bout a lot of thngs. and ofcourse gimme gyaan ;)
So.... Thankz! :)

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Tejal said...

:)
well said..i really liked what u said about the standards being set by other ppl n not by ourselves.. thats so true..we just keep trying to become somebody we are not when we should try to save our own individuality and respect our own desires.

what ya abhu, u sounding all mature n all? sheesh. what has manipal done to u? :P

Abhu said...

@ Tejal- Hmm... chalo... i guess i FINALLY managed to sound mature :P LOL
Yup.... I dunno wat Manipal has done to me... but its sure changed somethings a lot.

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Anonymous said...

Hey,

Yesterday I saw 'it' after it was due for a long long time! Yes many should watch it, I mean college fellows..to see things more clearly, and correct the track if its not the best fit for passion!
Life is too short to waste time on regrets.
Good that you are going on write track, i think!

-blessed holy socks, the non-perishable-zealot said...

Me, too. Everything happens for a reason... only God knows what those R, though. God bless you with discernment. See ya soon in Heaven. Love you.

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