Friday, July 25, 2008

The "pink" tale.


This has to be THE most obnoxious comment I’ve heard in my entire life! It is so utterly wrong to type cast people because of their actions on one particular day. And yes, this time also, it was the poor blog owner who is the victim of such ruthless behavior.

Without confusing you people further, let me divulge the details.

It so happened that on this one fine day, when the sun was playing peek-a-boo behind the dark threatening clouds (yep, here this phenomenon happens very regularly), Abhu set out with two of her friends Sun, and V (the new entrant into Abhu’s Mad-dome) to shop for some essential commodities and then basically just hang out. Luck and all the kindness in the world seemed to have turned their back towards Abhu that day. Those of you unaware of V’s antics aught to be enlightened with the fact that she can be THE most irritating person on earth (Iam SO gonna be dead today). The fact that she and Abhu are as opposite as the poles, seemed to add more ‘masala’ to what was gonna follow. So basically, it so happened that Abhu was wearing a ‘pink’ (and white) T-shirt that day. V was in one of her ‘those’ moods and was hell-bent on irritating Abhu to the core. Hence, her new-found- keen sense of observation soon observed the fact that Abhu was also carrying a ‘pink’ umbrella, and her key chain was made of ‘pink’ colored hearts. Trust me, it was all pure coincidence. But, no! What further added fuel to the fire, was that Abhu’s bed sheet also happened to be in ‘pink’ and so was her new soft toy. That it! V needed no further nudging. Within seconds Abhu was nicknamed “Pinku” for apparently very stupid reasons. No body seemed to notice the other colors that formed a part of her as well. The blues, the yellows, the blacks, the peaches, the greens , the violets all seemed to fade into oblivion. And this can be very infuriating! Trust me! Not to forget, completely inhuman. *sob sob* .

It just not about being called “pinku”. I still cant understand why ‘pink’ is considered to be such a “kiddish” color; why this biased opinion as far as the color ‘pink’ is concerned. The general perception is that only lil girls can have things in pink. I genuinely think pink looks good on everyone and suits everything, irrespective of one’s gender and age. Yep! U read me right. I think pink, when worn in the right way, looks good on guys too. I’ am sure, there is gonna be difference of opinion on this one, but I still stand by my dear “pink”. ‘Pinku’ or no ‘pinku.’



p.s. Do you know why people have this weird tendency of ignoring friends when they are with their bf or gf??? Are they like ashamed of their partner or something? Does waving a hi! make them devoid of a few nano-seconds of being with one another??? :S

19 comments:

The New Age Superhero said...

oh pinku.. don;t worry... i won't ignore u when i'm walkin with, either my gf or bf :P

Abhu said...

@ suk- Right! iam SO glad for dat! :I
Thank you.

Jayant said...

Pinku!!
m so very glad to know about this nomenclature of yours..
I guess "Pinky" would have suited better :P
nyz,I agree that it was a coincidence but then,what can one do when one observes sooo many things of the same colour??

and plzzz.. no pink for me!I genuinely believe that it is a kiddy and girly(both are actually synonyms :P) colour

Debasish Patra said...

Hi Pinku :)

well dat Post Script is so so true. Well, i dont hav answr's for 'WHY'....but it happens.

And lots of things change wen u(or ur fren) is in a relationship .

Abhu said...

@ jayant sir- i guess it was my unlucky day. and what the hell! i thot u people will genuinely sympathize me! but i guess iam gonna be very very dissapointed :(

pink is certainly not kiddy or girly ! though i do respect ur opinion , i stand by mine!

Abhu said...

@ debasish- i wanna know why. prolly u'll be now pretty much well-equipped to answer that one for me.
and plz dont let me get started on how friends change after getting committed.i say this without any exception:I

Debasish Patra said...

I guess, ppl start lookin at u differntly, and evn doze smiles dont remain innocent anymore.

Sudenly, evry single line in a convo wid ur fren has to hav a PUN in it...smtyms I guess it hurts too..

And its true, things change sachii mein.. and its nt jus dat um over-analysing.

But, then u get used to it too.

Abhu said...

@ debasish- nope.. dats what the people in "love" think. its for them that things have changed. For the others, it all remains the still, till dat friend of theirs starts behaving weirdly and spoils the whole thing. for the others life is still as it was before. u get use to u being in love, not about others behaving weirdly.

Debasish Patra said...

:)


finally i understand.

Abhu said...

@debasish- if u've truly understood it, then u'll be doing ur friends a huge favor.

Divita said...

i am positive pink would not look good on me, even a slight pink on my sleeve!!

i hate this notion that people have - people dont give time to their friends when they are out with someone. it depends on the couple, if they are not 'breathing into each other', they will never forget their friends. a friend can never be replaced by a boyfriend or a gf.

but then again i am sorry your friends are doing this with you. and if you happen to give a good time to V, please i am with you!! :)

Abhu said...

@divita- :) hehee! sure... thankz :D

Gunjan Aylawadi said...

happens a lotta times, wen everythin is well co-ordinated, u end up havin made fun of urself rather than appreciated!

Anonymous said...

heyy pink is my fav colour too:) nd evn i dnt understand y ppl think itzz weird havin ur stuffs in pink:o nywazz i lykd d last part of ur post lolzzz....it seems apt 4 sum way or d OTHER:P:D lolzzz.....

Tejal said...

lol.. more than childish, pink is considered a 'girly' color.. yea so wat? wen ppl do that to me i give them a nice SO WAT kinda stare n they usually shutup :)

n bout ppl in love.. see wat u dont understand is their brains arent workin right..u hav to know that.. its lik that special someone is clear n everything else is just too damn hazy. its that simple.

Abhu said...

@gunj- i swear!! even though it happens out of shear coincidence!
its SO irritating!

Abhu said...

@tina- hehehee!! u bet ;)

Abhu said...

@tejal- :O *gulps* dont i know how it is to be on the receiving end of such stares??? :O :P

and well... how come u sound SO experienced bout luv-shuv??? *raises a suspicious eyebrow*

Abhu said...

@tejal- :O *gulps* dont i know how it is to be on the receiving end of such stares??? :O :P

and well... how come u sound SO experienced bout luv-shuv??? *raises a suspicious eyebrow*